As our son enters middle childhood, I realize that it’s becoming more and more challenging to simply command orders and expect him to just obey and follow. Most of the time, he will ask more than a couple of “why” – is the task needed? Is my way the best way to accomplish it? Is time of the essence or can it wait until later? I can’t say I’m surprised really because I’m exactly like him when I was a child, and I can imagine my parents at their wit’s end with my many questions and counter-arguments.