Do your kids have household chores that they are truly accountable for? By “truly accountable” I mean one that if they do it, you, the parent (or your housekeepers) won’t be re-doing the chore once the child is out-of-sight; or if they don’t, then that job remains undone and your child is held answerable for not doing it? I just had to qualify because based on what I’ve observed, chores for kids, more often than not, mean “playtime activity” than a routine, necessary task that actually contributes to the household, effectively helping to off-load us parents or the hired help from the real task-at-hand.